Simple ideas for parents on teaching siblings to get along

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Teaching siblings to get along in 7 ways

Teaching siblings to get along in 7 ways

 
Sibling squabbles are unavoidable as your kids are growing up. You might have an older son and a daughter, and there’s always at least one of them who start to pick a fight. From hair-pulling, skin-scraping to name-calling, it is normal for brothers and sisters to fight during their earlier stages.

It’s important to remember this is all a part of being a spirited child. Every person goes through this before becoming a responsible adult. You don’t want your kids to grow up hating each other. But if fighting begins, you can always use the following helpful ways to stop arguments and teach siblings to get along.

  1. Don’t compare

    Sometimes without really realizing they do it, parents may at times compare their children in front of each other. You may say “Why don’t you finish your schoolwork like your brother/sister ahead of time?” In an attempt to set goals or raise an ideal child, parents voice out their concerns—which isn’t necessarily a heartwarming stroke to your little boy/girl’s ego. It can cause jealousy between siblings. So to avoid sibling rivalry, don’t take sides but admire both your kids out loud!

  2. Acknowledge and respect their uniqueness

    Your little girl might be good at drawing while your older son with playing sports. If you’re a parent who is more inclined with the arts for example, don’t lessen the limelight of your son. Instead, nurture both talents equally. Buy them supplies to bolster their interests. This will avoid siblings from potentially hating each other.

  3. Set rules, set goals

    Young minds are fast-developing minds. And the perfect time to teach get-along-rules for kids is precisely in their budding, curious stages. While it’s good to provide for their play, at an early age, be sure to teach them good values and teach them to avoid inappropriate behaviors. When you see them arguing, voice out a rule. Doing repeatedly will ingrain this in your young one’s absorbent mind.

    Goals are just as significant in child-rearing. Instead of competing with themselves, they should compete with their own! Small milestones such as learning how to place a toy back in the proper place, playing catch with a pet or even folding their blanket encourage the child to set and achieve goals for themselves. Encourage your child to set small goals each day.[tweet this]

    Set rules, set goals
  4. Give them rightful praise

    Whenever each of your children accomplishes a simple task or reaches a high mark, give him/her all the praise that’s well-deserved. “That’s my bright girl!” “Awesome, son!” This boosts their self-esteem. Don’t forget to equally praise your children. Don’t give praise to the other without praising another in the same amount. If the first is doing better than the other, still provide words of encouragement. This fosters good sibling relationships, prevents envy and stops sibling rivalry.

  5. Hear them out

    Everyone has frustrations, even young children. As young as they are, their frustrations may be a bit more petty, but that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be acknowledged. Your child may create tantrums and may scream if upset; they may do anything to get what they want. But before you say “Stop it!” and give them a glare, hear them out.

    Rivalry between siblings can ensue from minor disagreements. To avoid argument, allow some time for both of them to work it out. Siblings help each other out of the conflict. They’re young but they can solve problems too! This is also important to work on their agreeability. If things get out of hand and they usually never come to a sound end (especially if it gets physical), that’s the time to put a firm stand.

    Hear them out
  6. Keep calm

    When one of the two children messes up or the two start bickering and quarreling, keep cool. Of course you need to set things straight and tell them wrong from right. But do it calmly. Don’t frighten your children with shrill statements, and don’t undermine their take on the disagreement. Slowly and calmly set the bad to a good and do it in a manner that your child’s viewpoint is respected. A tip is to anticipate problems before they happen.

  7. Spend ample time with each child, make them feel loved

    In order to never lose power and to retain a strong influence upon your children, both of them need to feel the same affection coming from you as a mother or father. Sibling rivalry closely correlates with the amount of time you invest for each child. So if Tommy has baseball time with daddy for two hours, Timmy can play basketball in the yard with daddy for the same amount of time too. Always show love for your child equally. Giving them the treats they want, giving them the same amount of kisses and attention, or simply commending them for a great job are quintessential parental qualities, as well as techniques for kids to get along.

    Spend ample time with each child, make them feel loved

 
 

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